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I apologize in advance if this story is "long-winded" or wordy. However, I cannot describe my daughters miraculous entry into the world without first starting at the beginning. When I found out I was pregnant with my little girl....I was floored. HOW MANY TIMES can someone get pregnant on birth control? This would have been the 4th time. I made up my mind that I was NOT going to get excited. I had already been through 3 miscarriages...and so I didn't want to face the disappointment again. My pregnancy started out terribly. My morning sickness was wretched. I have the firm belief that whoever made up the term "morning sickness" has obviously never experienced it. I would rather term it "Morning-noon-night sickness". I also had spotting and severe cramping every day for the first 8 weeks of my pregnancy. My husband and I had chosen a "high-risk" OB due to my 3 previous miscarriages. He believed that I needed to be on progesterone suppositories because he considered THAT the reason I had lost my 3 precious babies. During my first ultrasound he ALSO found a sub-chorionic uterine hemmorage....so he put me on strict bedrest for the next month. When I hit 5 months I started having contractions...so I was put on bedrest to keep me from going into preterm labor. At 7 months I came down with a HORRIBLE flu...and actually went into preterm labor due to dehydration. I was put on Brethine to control contractions...and was ordered to stay on bedrest. At 32 weeks I began dilating...and continued to contract. I was again told to stay on bedrest....my dose of brethine was increased...and I spent 12 hours in the hospital for a Non-Stress Test. FINALLY, at 36 weeks I convinced my doctor that enough was enough...and I BEGGED for a scheduled induction. He scheduled me for July 3, 2007. I would have been 39 weeks at the time. On July 2, the day before my scheduled induction, I went to the dr for a standard check up. I was dilated to 4 cm and 80% effaced. However, my membranes were still fully intact. My doctor joked that I may not make it to the next day...and I laughed thinking, "Yeah...after 5 months of her trying to get here...I doubt she will come THAT easily now!" I was EXHAUSTED...so I drove home...and laid down for a nap. My husband came home for lunch 3 hours later and when I woke up, I immediately went to the bathroom....when I wiped...there was alot of bloody mucus...and being that it was my first pregnancy...I decided that I should PROBABLY go to the hospital. I already had my bag packed (since we were going to be induced the next day) so off we went. I wasn't in ANY pain at all....so I drove...HAHA. I know my husbands driving when we are NOT in this type of situation...and I wanted to get there in one piece. When I arrived at Labor/Delivery I was given a pelvic and hooked up to the monitors although the nurse didn't really say much. I thought that maybe I was just being overly cautious and that they were going to send me home...until the nurse came BACK in and handed me a hospital gown. I said..."Is everything okay? I am being admitted?" She said, "Sweetheart...you are dilated to a 6...and having regular, intense contractions. Are you not in ANY pain?!" I said, "nope...none at all!" My husband and I laughed because I am the BIGGEST baby when it comes to pain! My water was broken at 5:45pm...and I opted for an epidural...(rather my husband talked me into it....even though I didn't think I needed it) FINALLY at 9:45 I just sensed that something was up...and I asked to be checked again. I was a 10 and her head was RIGHT there. The nurses had me do a couple practice pushes....and then yelled at me and told me to stop because the doc wasn't there yet! My doc showed up at 10...and I started pushing. 5 minutes, and 3 pushes later...my daughter was born at 10:08pm. Addyson Grace. She weighed in at 7lbs 12 oz...and was 18 inches long. Overall, compared to my pregnancy....labor was a BREEZE. However, in spite of how HORRIBLE pregnancy was...I was ready to do it again immediately.... We didn't get pregnant immediately...but...we are currently TTC #2! My husband went from wanting 1 child...to wanting 2 maybe 3. We LOVE being parents...and everyday I am absolutely amazed by my little girl. Right now...parenting is a breeze for us...even though we are currently navigating the terrible twos. :) My daughter is definitely a gift from God....and I can't wait to see what kind of woman she becomes!
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