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Why Do Parents Put Their Children Up For Adoption?

There may be many different reasons that parents upt their children up for adoption. These reasons will, of course, vary from one family or individual to the next. Still, there are some relatively common situations that will lead parents to put their children up for adoption.

In terms of infants, parents most often put their children up for adoption for one of several reasons. It may be that the mother is young, even a minor, and is not socially capable of raising the child. In other cases, the woman may be unmarried, and have not planned on becoming pregnant, and believes that having a baby now would interfere with her long-term goals and plans, or that she would not be able to financially provide for her baby. In other cases, an “unwanted” pregnancy may wind up in adoption for the sake of avoiding an abortion.

When it comes for older children, it is less common for parents to put their children up for adopton and more common that the children will have been removed from their home. In all-too many cases, this is because of a situation where there has been neglect or abuse of one form or of another. When this happens, the court will strip the parents of their parental rights, and the children will become wards of the state. They will typically be put into a foster home setting until they can be adopted, if at all possible.

In some cases, if a child has special needs, parents may not be able to physically or emotionally care for their children, and will put their children up for adoption. It may be, for example, that the parents have some form of disability themselves, or it may be that the parents are just not equipped, in whatever way, to take care of the special-needs child.

Whatever the reason that parents put their children up for adoption, it does not change the fact that there are many children who need a home. This is especially true for older children, or for children that have special needs. If you are considering adoption, you should consider what exactly it is that you are able to do for an adopted child, to see what sort of child you might be capable of adopting.

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