Homeschooling is a challenge when the family unit is whole and finances arent an issue. However, homeschooling can become increasingly difficult when problems arise. Especially problems like custody issues. These can make homeschooling an immense challenge if both parents arent dedicated to their childs education and making it as easy as possible.

One problem that frequently arises during a custody battle is that one parent is dedicated to homeschooling their child/children. However, the other parent is not. In most cases the judge requires both parents to be supportive and in favor of homeschooling. Otherwise the judge will enforce public schooling. This is even the case with private school. Both parents must be in favor of the education choice for their child in order for the judge to approve it.

The most important thing is for the parents to be civil and discuss their child or childrens education. Putting the children first is what is important and no matter how much one spouse hates the other they should be able to put these issues behind them and make the children come first. Of course, if the parents can only be civil and open minded when discussing the kids, thats fine, as long as what is best for the kids is put first. The reason this is so important is because if the parents cannot agree or are simply out to make the other parents life hell then the children will lose. The court will determine what is best for the children and this is rarely what the parents involved would choose. So, dont allow your hatred or dislike for one another affect your children. Find a way to be cordial and make the decisions for your children that will be best for them.

Compromise is what is most important and always keep in mind that the other parent has a right to his/her opinions. Simply do your best to sit down and talk about the problem. Find out why the parent objects homeschooling or what fears they have. Talking and compromising will allow you to figure out what is best for your children. Also, if you can get along with the other parent, even if it is just for the sake of your children, your kids will benefit significantly so it is worth the effort, right?

Remember that when you choose to fight over custody and schooling neither you nor your spouse will receive what they want. At least not in most cases. This results in a lose, lose, lose situation. Both parents and children lose. So, instead of allowing the court to decide the future of your children sit down together, bury the hatchet and the hard feelings, and figure out what will work best for both of you and your children. Everyone will be happier overall and the children will benefit.

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