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Lots of parents wonder if attending daycare will affect their child in the future. The answer is yes because all experiences affect a childs future in one way or the other. There are actually a lot of benefits your child will experience by attending daycare that you may not have thought of.
Socialization When your child attends daycare he will learn to socialize with others. Socialization is very important and the earlier kids start learning the better socializers they will become. In daycare kids are exposed to many other children so they learn how to play with their friends and how to share. They also learn to coexist with other children they may not care for much and resolve conflicts on their own. As a result, daycare can really help your child get a jumpstart on socialization early on and prepare him for school.
No Separation Anxiety If you are not separated from your child until kindergarten begins then you may notice your child develops separation anxiety. This may be very stressful for parents, teachers, and the child. However, if your child attends daycare from an early age until they begin kindergarten they typically are able to get over their anxiety and understand that their parents will return at the end of the day. This certainly allows for a much smoother transition to kindergarten.
Prepared for Kindergarten Daycare prepares kids for kindergarten. Many times they will learn their alphabet, numbers, and the like while in daycare. This gives kids a head start for kindergarten and allows them to enter with the basic knowledge of what they are going to learn.
Following Rules Daycares have rules and if your child attends daycare he will certainly learn those rules and how to obey them. Learning to follow rules at a young age is very helpful to parents because the child will be responsive to rules at home as well as rules at school.
As you can see if you send your child to daycare there will be a lot of benefits from doing so. Of course there are some drawbacks associated with daycare but many of them are outweighed by the many benefits.
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When touring an in home daycare there are a lot of things you should look for. You want to make sure you ask plenty of questions and make the best decision for childcare so pay attention. The following tips are just a few things that you should be looking for when you tour an in home daycare.
State License First of all, look for the state license. If you dont see it ask where it is. You will want to make sure the in home daycare is licensed to provide this service and fully accredited within the law. If you cant find this information and the provider is unwilling to show it to you then you should definitely look for a different daycare.
Plenty of Space You should also ask where the daycare facilities are and ask to be shown around. A house may be large, but if only one room is used for 10 kids then that is not enough space. You want to see where the kids are located during the day and how much space is actually available for them. The daycare provider should have no problems showing you around and giving you a complete tour.
Cleanliness As you are touring make sure you pay attention to cleanliness. This includes the kitchen and the bathrooms. Rugs, furniture, and toys should also be evaluated for cleanliness. Germs get passed easily among kids in daycare and you want your kid to be in the cleanest and healthiest environment possible. If the daycare looks dirty when you tour imagine what it looks like when you arent there. Also, if you see any sign of a bug infestation you should say goodbye and mark that daycare off your list.
Age Appropriate Toys In home daycare centers frequently have a wide range of ages at any given time. Even so it is still important that there are plenty of age appropriate toys for each age group. All kids need toys to play with and to keep them occupied. So, keep your eye out for the games and toys available for your childs particular developmental level.
Safety Equipment All in home day care centers should be outfitted with first aid kits, fire extinguishers, smoke alarms, and other safety equipment. Your childs safety is of utmost importance and you wan to be reassured that in the event of an accident your child will be taken care of.
There are many other things you should be looking for when touring a in home daycare center. These are just some of the important ones that you definitely dont want to forget or overlook when you are touring.
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All daycares are different so the typical day at one daycare may be wildly different from the typical daycare at another daycare. However, in many instances the typical daycare schedule is not so different from daycare to daycare. If you want to know a specific schedule from a specific daycare then you need to ask the director of the daycare for a better idea. The following is more or less a typical daycare schedule. However, keep in mind that most daycares have a schedule that changes a little bit from day to day depending on various activities and life!
Arrival Most children arrive at daycare between 6:45 and 7:30 am. During this time frame children usually settle in and have free time to play or watch educational videos.
Breakfast Breakfast is usually served around 7:45 am and lasts until approximately 8:15 am.
Free Play Music, dancing, and free play usually follows breakfast to help kids settle down and get ready for the day.
Story Time To help kids relax after free play there is usually an hour of story time. This might last from 8:45 9:45 am. This includes crafts or circle time as well.
Snack Snack is usually served from 9:45 am to 10 am.
Recess Children enjoy recess from 10-11 am. If weather permits the children play outside, if not motor skill activities are enjoyed indoors.
Clean Up After recess it is time to clean up from 11 11:15 am.
Lunch Once everything is clean the kids are ready for lunch from 11:15- 11:45 am.
Instructional Activities After lunch the kids take part in some instructional activities. This might include the alphabet, watching an educational video, coloring, or some other project from 11:45 12:20 am.
Naptime Children have naptime from 12:30 2:30 pm. This is quiet time for children who dont fall asleep. They may read books or rest quietly on their mat.
Crafts Many times after naptime kids enjoy craft time or even story time. This is usually 2:30 3 pm.
Snack Snack is served again from 3-3:30 pm.
Pick up time Most children are picked up between 3:30 and 5:30 pm each day. During this time kids are allowed free time, outside time, or time for educational television.
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If you dont have a very long maternity leave from your job you may be wondering how soon an infant can start daycare. The answer varies significantly from daycare to daycare so you will need to do some research to find out the policies of daycares near you.
Most daycares, however, wont accept an infant until at least six weeks of age. And this must be a full term infant. If you have to go back to work after two or four weeks then that might leave you in a bind. There are some home based daycares that might accept your young infant and there is also the option of hiring a nanny until your child is old enough for a daycare.
Then again, some daycares are open and available for infants as young as two weeks of age. This may seem very young to you and you dont want to leave your child so soon, but if you have to go back to work you may not have a choice.
The best thing you can do in this situation is start looking for daycare providers before you actually have your baby. If you know that you will need to go back to work within a certain period of time then start scouting out daycares early. That way if a problem arises you will be able to handle it without stressing out too much. Also, when you have your baby you will want to enjoy the time you have together before you have to go back to work. Plus, you will need to relax and heal from the birthing process rather than search for a daycare.
When you are visiting daycare centers, or calling them on the phone, ask about their minimum age requirements. If they say six weeks or older ask if there is any leeway because you must return to work before your infant is six weeks of age and need daycare. Some facilities might be willing to work with you while others simply cannot due to the demands a very young baby places on the staff. Frequently, if you are looking for daycare for your young infant an in home daycare center will be your best choice especially if it is small and there are no other infants at the center.
It might take some time and research to find childcare for your less than six week old infant, but then again it might not. It really depends on your area and what you are capable of paying on a weekly basis for childcare. Just remember to start looking early so that you can enjoy every free moment you have with your newborn.
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If you are reading this article then you are looking for a daycare for your child and are trying to figure out exactly what you should be looking for. One of the most important things to look for when comparing daycares is what type of credentials do the teachers have. When you consider this information you will be able to determine what daycare has the best teachers and is the overall best fit for your child. It does take some work and lots of questions, but if you know what you are looking for then you are halfway there.
Each state has specific requirements and licensing procedures for childcare workers and daycare teachers. Some allow individuals with a high school education and little to no experience the ability to work in a daycare center while other states have more stringent credential requirements. Some daycare teachers are required to have a bachelors degree or a minimum of an associates degree. Others must have continuing education in the childcare field and/or a CDA.
The CDA is a Child Development Associate credential. This is recognized by 46 different states. In order for an individual to be eligible for the CDA credential the applicant must have at least 480 hours of experience, 120 hours of training, and a high school diploma. There is a one year program for individuals to learn about child development in the case where they do not have the experience. Those applicants who meet certain standards will be approved for the CDA credential.
Optimally, if you are looking for a great daycare teacher you would want them to have a bachelors degree in early childhood education as well as a CDA credential in addition to CPR/First Aid certification. You would also like a teacher to be enrolled in continuing education classes in order to constantly be learning new things and become a better teacher.
Remember that there is a lot of turnover in the daycare field because of low pay and stressful environments. So, finding a daycare teacher that has wonderful credentials may be tough. That is because people who have excellent credentials usually find a job teaching in the public school system and have a salary as well as insurance. Regardless, at least you know what to look for. The more education and credentials a teacher has the better, but that doesnt necessarily mean the teacher is great at what she does. So, try and consider the whole package when trying to find a daycare for your child.
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Many parents stress over the decision to send their child to daycare. However, the truth of the matter is that most children actually benefit from daycare and it helps to share these benefits with the parents. It is a lot easier for parents to send their children to daycare when they feel they are doing so to help their child rather than doing so simply so they can go to work. While there are may benefits of sending your child to daycare a few of them will be discussed below to help give you a better understanding.
Friends and Socialization Skills If you stay home with your child he will learn to interact one on one with you, but he might be lost in a group. However, kids who attend daycare learn quickly how to assert themselves in a crowd, how to make friends, and how to socialize. Of course, some squabbles arise, but often times the kids learn how to resolve the conflicts on their own. This takes some time but the longer your child is in daycare the better he will be at socializing and standing up for himself.
Prepared for School If your child has been at home with you day in and day out for five years and then all of a sudden has to go to kindergarten for an entire day you will probably be met with some resistance. However, if you begin sending your child to daycare then he will soon become accustomed to spending most of the day away from you and will really enjoy having his own friends. He will love coming home and sharing his day with you and telling you all about his new friends and activities. For this to be effective you can simply send your child to daycare two or three times per week. This is a nice break for the stay at home parent who could probably use some down time and is a great way to prepare the child for kindergarten.
Also, daycares frequently teach preschool aged children the numbers, the alphabet, and other things. If you have found resistance trying to teach your child on your own you may see that he responds well and learns at daycare. This is because there are lots of other kids learning as well and fitting in is important not to mention competing!
If you send your child to daycare he will really benefit from it. Of course, sending your child to daycare for 12 hours a day five days per week can have its drawbacks. The best is sending your child to daycare for a couple hours a couple days a week. You will see lots of positive changes in your child!
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Many parents believe they must send their child to an in home daycare or to a daycare center. However, this is not necessarily the case. There are several alternatives to a daycare center that just might work out for you and your family. Below a couple of the options are discussed to help you get a better idea of what options might be available to you other than traditional daycare.
Care by Relatives Many families find that childcare by relatives is a really wonderful option. You may have a grandparent, aunt, cousin, or sibling that stays home and could care for your child during the workweek. Of course, your family members schedule might only allow for care a couple of days per week or in the afternoons after school. Regardless, a family member will more than likely take good care of your child and you will trust that individual. Also, your child already knows the family member so there is really no adjustment period. Finally, you may not have to pay your relatives, especially grandparents, although you should definitely offer. In the end it is probably a safer option than daycare and certainly a more affordable one.
Nanny Some families want to know their child is being taken care of by only one person and the idea of traditional daycares is not appealing. For these families nannies or au pairs are a fabulous option. You will find this to be a significantly more expensive option, but you will have more input into your childs care and who provides that care. Some nannies are live ins while others arrive for certain periods during the day. Regardless, you can stop by any time to check in on your child, call the nanny as many times per day as you like, and change at any time.
Take Your Kid to Work Some offices actually have daycare centers in the building. Other employees have found that their boss will allow their older children or even their infants to spend time at work occasionally. So, if you have nowhere to send your kids when they get off the bus then they might could spend the afternoon in your office doing homework or helping you make copies and running in office errands. This is not an option for all employees, but for some it is.
You will need to evaluate all of the childcare options before you make the right one for your family. You will find childcare for your children, just be persistent and focused.
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When you are looking for a daycare facility for your child you may be wondering how to interview the facility to find out if it is a place where you want your child or not. However, if this is your first child you may not be aware of all the things you should ask a daycare facility when touring to determine if it is the best place for your child. The following questions may help you conduct a more thorough interview.
First of all you might want to ask what ages are accepted. Many daycares accept ages six weeks to five years but there are others that have different age requirements. Another question to ask is if there are full time and part time schedules available or only one or the other. You may want to send your child only part time or may need a full time daycare so the answer to this question is important.
You will also want to ask about the holidays the daycare closes for when you are discussing schedules. As well as how early you can drop your child off and the latest you can pick him up.
Another important question is whether the director is available at certain hours to answer questions or if you can call at any time. You will also want to include whether the phone is answered quickly in case you have an emergency situation and need to contact the daycare. In addition, can you visit without an appointment or is the director only available by appointment?
Keep in mind that a really important question to ask is whether the daycare is licensed and accredited and what kind of qualifications and licenses the teachers have. Ask whether the teachers are first aid and CPR certified as well as if the daycare conducts background checks on all employees. The teacher to child ratio is also important to find out as well as how long the daycare has been in business.
You may very well have your own questions you want to ask as well that will help you get a good overall feel for the daycare. When you are touring the facility also dont be ashamed to have a checklist and mark off the answers the director tells you. If you are touring multiple daycares it will be difficult for you to remember all of the answers. So, keep good notes and ask all questions that come to you. That is the only way you can find the best daycare facility for your child.
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You probably have a lot of questions about your childs daycare especially if you are sending your first child to daycare and have not experienced it before. One common question is if the daycare should have a set curriculum. There is no right or wrong answer to this and some daycares do have a set curriculum while others dont. Keep in mind that daycare and preschool are two different things. If you want your child to go to a place where he will be learning predominantly then preschool is the best choice. But, if you simply need childcare then that is what daycare is for.
Many daycares do offer a basic curriculum, but they focus on caring for children more than teaching them. Of course, teaching is part of the day but it is not the main focus. Kids eat breakfast, snacks, and lunch and learn to cleanup after themselves. They also enjoy story time, educational television, and playing outside. During instruction time children make crafts, practice the alphabet and numbers, and things of that nature. You will rarely see a reading program in a daycare although there will probably be plenty of books to read. The point is a daycare is simply that. A place you send your child to be cared for. A preschool on the other hand focuses on stimulating your child and teaching the basics your child will need for kindergarten.
Of course, a basic curriculum in daycares is what the daycare calls their schedule. You will want your daycare to have a well thought out and planned schedule so you know what your child will be doing all day. This also shows your kid wont be plopped in front of a television set all day. Most daycares will have flexibility in the schedule to add something new and exciting or to make time for something else.
If you are looking for a very strict curriculum in a daycare you can probably find it. There are many different types of daycares out there and some have very rigid schedules while others do not. This also depends on the size of the daycare and the amount of teachers.
No matter what you are looking for in a daycare you can more than likely find it. That is because there are so many different daycares out there and each of them has a different focus and goal. You should make up your mind what type of daycare you are looking for and then find one that matches.
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Your child is in daycare for eight hours a day, five days per week and you notice that now he gets sick all the time. Could he possibly be getting sick from daycare? The answer is yes! Kids in daycare are notorious for sharing germs and catching each others illnesses. In fact, if your child is in daycare it is not unusual for him to get sick every four to six weeks. This might seem too frequent, but it is actually the norm among daycare goers. Kids also spread these germs to their parents so everyone gets sick! There is not too much you can do about keeping your child healthy and well if he attends daycare, but there are a couple of pointers that might at least reduce the frequency of illnesses.
Healthy Diet First of all, you need to make sure your child is eating a healthy diet. The healthier your childs diet the more likely he will have a strong immune system and can fight off some of those germs. A diet full of lean meat, vegetables, dairy products, and fruit is the best diet to offer your child. Try to avoid lots of sugary treats and fast food should be avoided altogether if possible.
Clean Daycare Make sure you are sending your child to a daycare that is cleaned on a regular basis. You want to know that the bathrooms are cleaned daily, including door knobs and handles. Also, the floors should be mopped and disinfected as well as all countertops and surfaces. Making sure the daycare is clean and disinfected daily will kill those germs faster and reduce the amount of sickness going around.
Personal Hygiene Another thing you can do is teach your child personal hygiene. Enforce had washing after eating, visiting the bathroom, sneezing, and even playing. Send a bottle of hand sanitizer to school for all children’s use so that everyone has clean hands and fewer germs are spread. Its not easy for little kids to think about washing their hands that often, but if you make it a routine they will get the hang of it.
Amazingly enough even all of these actions wont keep your child from getting sick at daycare. It should hopefully reduce the occurrences, but kids spread germs and are going to get sick. If you notice your child is getting sick on a weekly basis or never seems to get well then a trip to the doctor is in order because something more could be going on.
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